Do affair relationships last? I don't know, I suppose that some of them can and do last but the relationships you are currently in while you are having the affair most certainly will not survive. It would be so much better to end one relationship then start another if that is what you want, instead of sneaking around and causing more hurt than is necessary.
What to look for when you suspect your spouse of having affair relationships? If they have become preoccupied and bite your head off every time you try to talk to them and you know for sure you haven't done anything wrong then that may mean they are cheating and just trying to avoid you at all costs.
What to look for when you suspect your spouse of having affair relationships? If they have become preoccupied and bite your head off every time you try to talk to them and you know for sure you haven't done anything wrong then that may mean they are cheating and just trying to avoid you at all costs.
If your spouse is petty and manipulative they may accuse you of cheating on them and if you are insecure and have a low self-esteem you may act guilty when you are not. Be upfront and as brave as you can be and do not let this happen. Stand up for yourself and tell them they are full of it then demand to know why they have falsely accused you. They will probably won't admit to anything but at least they will know they cannot treat you like that again.
You also may have something to worry about if the two of you haven't had sex in a while. If your sex life has gradually gone downhill or has suddenly taken a turn for the worse it doesn't matter. Sex is a big part of any relationship and when it suddenly goes away you should wonder why and question your spouse immediately.
You should confront your spouse and demand answers if they come home smelling like a perfume factory or have begun hiding certain things from you like the credit card bills, or they start working late when they never have before. Always check their pockets before doing the laundry for receipts for things they may have bought, gifts you didn't receive or expensive dinners.
Another way to suspect if your spouse is cheating is if they all of a sudden decide to change the way they dress or get in better shape and leave you out of the loop. Maybe they have decided to start wearing their hair in a younger looking style or even take the gray out, too.
You do not have to be a rocket scientist or relationship expert to realize there is something going on that shouldn't be. Do not be a doormat, confront the situation and your spouse head on. They may not admit to anything and they may try to give lame excuses for their behavior but do not let them get away with anything.
The best thing you can do for yourself and your marriage is to demand answers to their new behaviors. Now maybe they are just trying to improve themselves for your sake, but it is highly unlikely. More likely is the fact that they are having affair relationships that they do not want you to know about.
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